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1. Marco Fillette

   I went to my best friend's bachelor party and got a lot more than I'd bargained for. I'm married. And now I feel guilty.

   Sunday, 28-Mar-10 22:30:53 UTC from web at San Francisco, California, United States
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   • funkydiva

     @marco These sort of things happen. What's done is done. Is there something you can do that would make you feel less guilty?

     Tuesday, 30-Mar-10 01:53:10 UTC
   • Marco Fillette funkydiva

     @funkydiva I could probably tell her. But would that make things better? Or worse?

     Tuesday, 30-Mar-10 02:38:23 UTC
   • funkydiva

     @marco This depends on how your wife is. Do you think she is capable to forgive you?

     Tuesday, 30-Mar-10 14:40:37 UTC
   • whysoserious

     @marco I'm also married and I wouldn't tell her if I were you. If she doesn't know, it won't harm her, right?

     Wednesday, 31-Mar-10 00:16:46 UTC
   • funkydiva whysoserious

     @whysoserious As a woman, I would definitely want to know the truth even if it hurts me.

     Wednesday, 31-Mar-10 00:38:47 UTC
   • bonnie whysoserious

     @whysoserious That's such a male thinking pattern. Maybe some women would like to know the truth about their men.

     Wednesday, 31-Mar-10 01:21:13 UTC
   • lilith bonnie

     @bonnie Yeah but think about it. The guy feels guilty anyway so what's the point in telling her the truth and making things worse.

     Wednesday, 31-Mar-10 02:07:58 UTC
   • chocolatechip bonnie

     @bonnie From an ethical point of view we all know that the right thing to do is telling her, but I don't know if it's the smart thing to do.

     Wednesday, 31-Mar-10 02:39:47 UTC